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Were they transforming marriage as well? I was curious. We shared a house, political viewpoints, the responsibility of raising two small kids.

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As a single woman, I might have rolled my eyes at their ogling. Now I blushed. It reminded me of how tipsy I got from the first beer I drank after nine months of pregnancy abstention. Monogamy had made me capable of getting drunk on the male-attention equivalent of Miller Lite.

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My immediate reaction was repulsion, followed by a kind of morbid curiosity. Was there something to learn here? He tried begging. He tried calling.

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In one aggrieved text he wrote, I work so hard at my job. All year I work day and night trying to help people who have. When I come to the States for a holiday, all I want is to have fun and relax and enjoy a threesome with two beautiful, married women.

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I closed the app and took a very long shower. Pete was sleeping by the time I got in bed. I kissed his forehead and his eyelids and felt grateful for. As for Pete, he was learning that married men on Tinder did not get quite the same level of positive feedback or harassment as married women.

Matches were harder to come by, and when Pete reiterated to the women he matched with that he was in fact married, they did not think it was fabulous or awesome. Go fuck yourself, one wrote. Gross, wrote.

Perhaps married women were simply beginning to want what married men have always wanted and come to expect:.